When you’re in a relationship, things spice up in so many ways. For some couple, it’s just wonderful and lovely. However, for some other couples, it can be frightening and worrying. ‘What if I say something wrong?’, ‘how if she can’t deal with my bad side?’, and etc., are the few venomous thoughts which often become the foundation of a fight and eventually a break-up. To avoid those, let’s keep your worry and anxiety away by introducing you to these three wondrous magic words in a relationship to strengthen your relationship with your partner.
For the first word, you’ll meet ‘apology’. Apology is seemingly simple and everyone can do something about that. However, when it comes to a relationship, ego often becomes a big hindrance that makes the sentence of “I’m sorry” as a forbidden and degrading sentence.
Apology is the word you need to grow in your relationship. If you have your share of mistake, man up and accept your fault, say your apology, and try to change the bad behavior. By having this word in your relationship, it’ll give your relationship the channel to accept each other flaw. Since you’re aware of what you have done and how it could affect your partner. By actually applying and implementing this word, you’ll get to be less worry that your partner might not accept you as you’re whole. As you’re well aware that they’re not perfect, your partner is equally aware of that.
Special note: Yet, don’t overuse this world if you don’t really come to accept and agree on your wrongdoing just to calm your partner. This one of the most powerful magic words in a relationship will change to be toxic for your relationship that way.
Not only in politics, the word ‘transparency’ is also equally as important in a relationship. Surely, you often hear it in many relationship advice. But this is often not the main point. Sadly, transparency is such a wondrous word that could bring a miracle to your relationship.
It may come tough to open up and share the details you think as ugly for your relationship. But, as you may know, the bitter medicine makes the body healthier than the delicious instant food and snack. Once you have the bravery to make it, you’ll find that utterly relieving. The sentence such as “Let’s talk about it” and “Let’s have the heart to heart talk” would give a strong base for your relationship. Accordingly, when there’s transparency in your relationship, you won’t have any fishy and anxious thought eating your sanity.
Special note: If your partner has difficulty to open up and being transparent, take the time slowly. Yet, if it gets too long, you need to regard that to your partner. In addition, if nothing changes, you might need to reconsider your relationship.
In our life, the existence of assurance is unbeatable. When you want to buy a new expensive item, you’ll check if there’s any guarantee. When you search for a job, you’ll need to know that you’re going to get paid. Our life is on the face of anonymity of fate, so it’s just normal that we need the assurance. Thus, it’s also one of the magic words in a relationship.
A relationship is an exclusive tag and let’s be honest that for some people it’s an expensive choice. They’ll need to share their life and time with someone else. Hence, assurance is a big deal in a relationship. For example, if you’re a busy person and you can’t make time, instead of saying “sorry I was busy” which is going to sound like an excuse, give notice ahead “I’ll get busy this whole day, but I’ll call you as soon as everything is done”. That’ll definitely make your relationship more stable.
Special note: This word can do you wonder, but if you taint it with lies, that will grant you a different result.
Other than those three magic words, there are two other things you commonly know, namely, respect and affection. As important and magical those three are your relationship will go dry if there’s no affection and respect following it.